Feeling less than hot

Sex-drive reset: of course, it’s hard to look forward to sex if you’re worried about your man seeing that dimple or two on your thighs. But, trust me, most men are just thrilled to be naked with you.


Still, if you’re uncomfortable, sex is sure to be, too. So how do you overcome your insecurity? Think about what you love about your body the way it feels, moves, or your favorite body part. If you’re truly out of shape, commit to a workout program, which will improve your health and energy level. A sexy nightgown that fits just right can be a real confidence booster, too, so go ahead and treat yourself.

Sex-drive reset: He left his bureau drawers open again? Even seemingly little issues in a relationship can build resentment over time, causing desire to take a nosedive. Ask yourself, "Am I not in the mood because I’m mad at him?" If the answer is yes, get it out in the open. Being up front really helps build a strong bond, which is the basis of a healthy sex life.

Another safeguard against resentment: regularly show each other you care through affectionate touching that doesn’t lead to sex, talking about your shared goals, and making time for date nights.

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